Julia STOP IT. You will NEVER get anywhere if you continue to keep going down this road.
The guy that was hanging around once in a while seems to disappear for about a week at a time. No text. No call. No visit.
Is that normal? This guy has been around since the beginning of September. All we’ve really ever done is text, gone out a few times and hang out at my house a handful of times. But..He has told me many times that he “really likes me” and wants to pursue a relationship.
Then, I don’t hear from him for a week. wtf? This happens a lot. Not just once.
FOUR. 4. I gave him 4 chances to come around and figure it out.
That fell flat as a pancake. I finally had enough and told him that he’s too inconsistent and shady for me.
Then he told me that I think too much. Over analyze everything.
Well when you don’t hear from someone for a week, my mind starts going.
Am I wrong? Granted I’ve been out of this scene for 13 years, but I still don’t think that’s normal.
ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER THAN WORDS.
At least for me they do. Don’t tell me you feel one way then act completely differently.
I got a big fat “leave me alone” the other day. Am I crazy? I am just so confused as to what goes through his head.
I should cut all ties, right?
As a fault, I have a big heart and give people the benefit of the doubt. MAJOR FAULT. I hate that part of me. Why do I let people come into my life who give it no real value? Why am I cursed with this heart and mind?